I've seen a fair amount of this. I've seen guys get married to women that they couldn't even speak to. It's a wonderful thing to go abroad and learn a culture and develop empathy and respect for people who were raised differently than you. However, these guys who delude themselves into thinking "women don't want the rights they have in the US" are going to find out the truth when they try to impose their patriarchal viewpoint on a foreign woman. You better treat women right because women are a lot stronger than men are, and most of them have already endured things that would break a man many times over.