Than you Mark, that's very kind of you. My two wonderful daughters are the thing that make me proudest in life, and I spend a lot of energy figuring out ways to be of better service to them. I think the sad part of all this is that my dad learned his attitudes through the abuse he endured in his own childhood. I have a lot of sympathy for him, but the "gentlemen's agreement" where we never discuss our deeply rooted pain is not a sustainable strategy. Your feedback is very helpful to me. It provides me with a sense of direction as I consider future thought experiments and reflections. I appreciate that enormously!