That's very well said. It had a value as armor, but it also destroyed your self-worth. Interesting that you had a name for it! I'm always fascinated by how other people had similar experiences. I'll have to ponder your comment more, breaking people down is such a fundamental element of American ideology that people go through the motions without even considering the consequences. I'm particularly fascinated that you called it "playing the dozens." Is there a reference to mythology or the religion in that name?