The underlying message is not "men who don’t have sex are weird and dangerous." That's an inaccurate reading that sidesteps the valid position of this article.

In the United States, you have men who are so confused by their own sexuality that they channel that confusion into violence.

NEVER did I say that men who make a personal, healthy choice not to have sex are violent.

Toxic males in the United States respond with violence out of frustration and confusion. If they could learn how to treat people with kindness (be less toxic) they wouldn't have this problem.