They want to get out of the consequences of the evil acts they perform. "Oh, I was innocent!" I'm glad you're off to hit your punching bag! It's good to know that's the reality of life in the US (just don't get into any real fights). You're final point is the real crux of the issue. What good does it do to punish the kids when the parents are really the ones at fault. I don't have a good answer. Thanks for your wonderful comment!